Yup. It's not fun and sleep deprivation for new parents can lead to serious problems. Aside from the risk of anxiety and low moods, ongoing lack of sleep can lead to post natal depression. But enough of the stuff we already know. What the hell can we do about it? Well, the good news is, you can get more post baby zzzzs by improving your 'sleep hygiene.'
Here's some top tips to get you well under way to sleeping better, and feeling more in the land of the living again (it's time to banish your inner zombie).
- Plan ahead. If you're pregnant, set some time on the weekends to pre-cook and freeze meals - better yet, organise some family and friends to help you out. The more you do now, the easier it will be when you're in that newborn zombie phase.
- Find a routine. A tricky one as a baby's routine changes as they get older. But when you're in a pattern, try to stick to regular feeding times. If you find yourself falling asleep on the couch after putting the baby to bed - get to bed yourself! Sleeping in different places can play havoc on your bedtime routine.
- Share the mother-load. If you can, pump your breast milk and take it in turn with your partner to feed the baby during the night.
- Eat for sleep. This is HUGE! Cutting carbs is NOT the answer, 'cos as a new Mum, this is going to give you less energy instead of more. Drink plenty of water during the day (and while breastfeeding) and avoid heavy meals too close to bedtime.
- Have an early workout. Exercise soothes stress and lowers your body's built-in thermostat which is what it needs to help you sleep! No late night cardio - exercise at least four hours before bedtime, otherwise your body temp will stay high and keep you awake!
- Recharge. Newborns sleep abut 18-19 hours a day for two to three hours at a time. So it makes sense that when they sleep - so should you (yup, now IS the time to ignore the housework). You can recharge with 20-25 min naps during the day - and don't forget the serious relaxation time at least a couple of times a week.
- Wake up call. Baby not sleeping? Call the Tresillian Helpline - they can help with a sleeping routine for your baby: 1800 637 357. And if you're still not getting enough sleep - get help! Speak to your GP or health care provider.