What's 'normal' after having a baby?

Perhaps nothing feels 'normal' or at least not the way you remember it! Seriously though, first-time Mums are often so preoccupied with the very thought of just 'getting through' childbirth that they haven't even thought about what might happen to their bodies afterwards. So what can you expect in those first few weeks (when you're also trying to cope with a newborn) - and what can you do to help speed your recovery?

 Birth to 6-8 weeks after delivery

• You’re tired and generally not feeling like your old self yet.
• Stitches and tissue damage/tears may feel tender.
• Your post birth bleeding should have ceased.
• You may be a little fearful of or cautious when performing bowel movements.
• You may have difficulty straightening up/standing tall especially if you had a caesarean.
• Your caesarean scar is still healing and may be tender. You will have to modify getting up and down from the sitting and lying down positions.
• Your pelvis might be feeling very unstable and loose or conversely you might feel a general tightness in your pelvic region.
• Your abdominal may feel loose and unsupported.
• Your muscle may be tight and achy especially around your hips, shoulders neck and backs of your thighs.
• You may have some degree incontinence – urinary, gas or faecal.
• You may have difficulty mentally connecting to your Pelvic Floor muscles.
• You might be experiencing some neck, bicep and shoulder pain and general tightness in your upper body due to the demands of breastfeeding.

Your best actions: rest when you can and as much as possible, no lifting anything heavier than your baby, begin gentle stretching, get a specialist Post Natal massage and nourish your depleted body through the very best in nutrition, home-cooked good food! Ultimately, start reconnecting gently to your body especially your Pelvic Floor gently but also let mother nature do her job too!

Acknowledgements: Jenny Burrell, burrelleducation.com